How Do YOU Measure Your Achievements?
By
Gary Vurnum
"My most
brilliant achievement was my ability to be able to persuade
my wife to marry me."
This quote isn't one of my own — although I would like to echo
its sentiments.
It was the great Winston Churchill who said it. A man who lead
the Allies to victory in the Second World War.
A man who became one of Britain's most-loved heroes.
Yet — even though he achieved more in his life than you or I
could possibly imagine — he certainly knew what was the most
important part of his life.
It's easy to measure your achievements by the material things
you have, or by how much money you earn.
It's much harder to put a value on those things that are vitally
important for a happy and successful life:
- A good
relationship with your spouse
- Happy,
'balanced' children
If you were to measure your success by those alone — I am sure
that you would certainly view your achievements a little more
positively.
It took the shock of my disabled son, Connor's, birth to make
me really appreciate how lucky I was. Even though I didn't realise
it at the time — I had achieved quite a lot of these 'goals'
that matter.
It's no use being a 'star' at work if your home life is terrible.
It's no use being a millionaire if you've only got three weeks
to live.
Unfortunately — we have all been 'conditioned' to focus solely
on money as a barometer of success and achievement.
Sure — we could all certainly do with more of it in our lives
— but is it really as important as we think it is?
You alone can answer this question:
"Would you
rather have a million dollars or lose a loved one?"
I know — this may be a 'shocking' question to ask — but, when
all is said and done — at least it might help you realise that
what you take for granted is more precious than what you think
you truly desire.
The first step on the road to success is to build a solid platform
to support you for when you hit a low point — which you certainly
will along the way.
So — don't put yourself down for appearing not to have accomplished
anything with your life because you are not financially successful.
I have less money now than before Connor was born — yet by working
on the things that matter in my life — I can honestly say that
both myself and my family are the happiest we have ever been.
I spend more time with my wife, son, and daughter — and I have
stopped taking them for granted because I have realised how important
they are to me — above ALL else.
Now that I have a solid foundation — I can now begin to move
forward and work towards some more of my own personal targets.
Don't let the cloud of money get in the way of what you easily
achieve in your life.
Money makes the world go around — but it certainly doesn't make
it any happier!
We are all comparatively richer than any generation before us
— yet we seem more unhappy with 'our lot'.
No matter how many books you read or tapes you listen to — if
you focus on money at the expense of what's really important
to you — then you'll be in trouble.
Take stock of your life TODAY — and see what really important
things you can achieve.
Once you have that foundation — then you
can work on the monetary side of your achievement 'scale'.
The balance between success and failure isn't defined in dollars
— it's measured by stability and happiness. •
© Gary Vurnum
About the Author
Gary Vurnum has quit his
full-time job to devote himself to his family and his self-development.
His life turned around after
the birth of his severely disabled son, and he now wants to share
with others the tools he used to remain positive during the worst
time of his life. His life-changing ebook “The Science
of Success” is available from www.scienceofsuccess.com.
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